Haven't played in 6 months and i come back to this...

So i haven't played in six months and i still manage to not feed in a game, have pretty good cs (better than b5 at least) i know how to build, i know how to adapt my build for certain circumstances especially since im an adc and frankly no one has a single grip on positioning so i cant completely depend on them, soloq amiright.....but the problem comes from how is it that as a b5 player, i have not played in six months and can still do better than my team...how is it that im always the one directing people because they don't know how to play the game...and thats my main problem.... all the high ranks, how tf is it that your supposed to carry a team that barely know the basics of not chasing and focus the objective, how do you carry that...especially when the enemy for fudge sakes, actually knows how to build, knows their power spikes, knows positioning, teamates completely dependable and i get the team that doesn't even know the basics of actually winning. I've decided to be a kalista one trick and its pretty good considering know one knows how to deal with kalista in b5 lawl, so early game as long as it isn't cait, i can get fed easily tbh. So happens im lanign with a cait and i know theres like 2-3 tanks on the team so i rush bork instead of runaans which i usually do, then iget boots, then runanns which by that time power spike over 9000, my dmg is high. I get the pentakill midlane,my first pentakill ever btw with my fav champ which makes it sweeter but i get the penta kill, i know cait is getting stonger with crit and the tanks are gonna get tankier, i decide to keep my dmg but add some health and armour for survivability in mind that hey these guys will peel for me, its a pretty solid front line and annie is gonna be after me its okay, ican disrupt some shiz with my ult....i usually thinks these out like this but i see its a bad idea now...no one listened to me or my pings, they got cocky real quick, i didnt get cocky because i knew as late game came, ill have maybe one more power spike but after that im gonna stop scaling as well making me a bit weaker than the enemy but i had trust in my team we'd get the job done....but no one listens, they go into 4v5 while A i might be respawning or traveling there or B im tryna take this big minion wave so we dont have any sneaky split pushers because they had a twisted fate and he was split pushing for awhile.... i tell them dont fight until i get there, its ez just stay back dont get caught, if you have to move back, move itll be an even easier gank because they dont have a turrent to fall under. They keep not listening, the other big dmg dealer akali kept going into 3v1's with the tanks....i see her all in the enemy jungle and i see them coming for her, i ping she backs up then goes up again to only die and its like wtf. People can you listen so we can win....its easy to say go main top or mid and play a meta champ and just carry but thats so boring my dudes, and i highly doubt it'd do much good unless you had the mechanical skills of a plat player playing fiora or riven which takes time. All in all im just tired of it being a 1v5 from the beginning of the game where i'm the only one that has a good grasp on the game and the only one that knows how to not die 3-5 times in a row before the 10 minute mark, i can be against a counterpick and on abg have 2-3 deaths by the 15-30 minute mark. Usually i start dieing more because i get frustated trying to carry people or deal with fed enemies and i make a mistake here and there but like my god. Im not silver lvl yet but i sure as well damn know im not b5 lvl....its jsut so stressful trying to help people not make mistakes so you all can win. And yes iheard dont focus on everyone else but yourself, but if your team is ducking up making silly mistakes, dont look at the map, cant adapt their build path a lil, cant position....its like your moving forward in skill but the game doesnt cater to that, its like your environment being still but your moving ways ahead, your still not going to get anywhere. I watch videos to get better and watch streams and look at highlights, iwatch esports, but as my knowledge grows no one else around me is on the same level.

My question is how the fudge do i get over this, at this point im starting to think just joining the bandwagon playing trash is the best thing to do, dont strive to be great, strive to be good or below, cause im in bronze ;;)