Is This a Game?

"It's ARAM, idgaf if I feed/go afk" K. "It's Normal, idgaf if I feed/go afk" K. "Idgaf if it's Ranked, it's just a game". Like is this community for real or is everyone trolling me? Is the "it's just said mode" or "is just a game" an excuse to feed or go afk? I find those player 9/10 in every game I play and I feel like I'm wasting my time so hard because of them. What should I do beside report all of them (thing that made my reports more than useless)?