Honest question about toxicity
So I was thinking, I recently got a chat ban. And the description stated that my communication was below the standards of league. Now, we've all seen the games with the ESRB ratings that state, online experience may differ. And we all know that ALL of those games have a "mute" feature to potentially avoid those situations. So with that said, if someone finds what I'm saying offensive, can they not just mute me? If i find what they are saying offensive, I will absolutely mute them. But what if they are feeding, I can't "mute" their feed. No, I have to sit and waste 15-30 minutes of my life, while being cordial about the whole thing, because for some reason the "real issue" would be me saying something offensive that can with a 1 second click of a button, be muted.
Point I'm trying to make is that is it really the keyboard warriors that are the problem? Not saying I am one, but keeping in mind that text can be muted in half a second, but feeding takes 15-30 minutes to "mute" (aka end game). Are the feeders and trolls not the real problem here? Shouldn't they be the ones we are shunning from our community?
I mean from skimming the boards, the best advice people seem to have is, just mute the trolls and play. So we are supposed to become some kind of glorified masochist to make it through the league ladders? I am happy to mute people who are offensive (that's what mute is there for right?), I won't even report them. I report people who say "F*** you, I'm done" and proceed to run it down mid. Those are the players ruining my league experience. Not the players having a normal human reaction to a team based competitive environment where you are mashed up with a bunch of strangers and pretty heavily reliant on them to work with you to achieve victory. I understand the flame, I don't understand the running it down mid. The running it down mid are the people hurting teamplay, not the people saying a few offensive words that can actually cease to exist with the simple act of using the provided mute button.
Idk call it a rant, or whatever idc. But if you want to keep the system the way it is. Remove the mute feature. Final analogy, imagine you had just spent days and days writing and researching to write a 100+page dissertation for your Doctorate program, and someone came and just deleted all the files. Now imagine another scenario where someone comes up and tells you how shit your dissertation is, but doesn't destroy the files. I mean yea the second one would bother me, but at least they didn't waste my time...