denying ur jg's help when he's already near ur lane and then proceeds to tilt the jg more

so i've had the pleasure of playing with a (lv 5 dont0407) who thinks his decision to reject help from his jg doesnt affect the ENTIRE team..... i started by taking my enemies red near top... garen and aatrox were in the middle of the lane trading. i ping im omw---iverns lvl two ganks are quite good. im fucking having a good time...

NOW MIND YOU IM ALREADY TOP.....IM...ALREADY...TOP...plz absorb this information. aatrox says "dont come" in my head im like.... "this match is gonna be that bull bull" and i was right... so i said "why" he says "i dont need you" "if you come and fail i'll be tilted" --OK.. OK. in the end. he got the kill on garen under tower with minimal health. and escaped the tower and the jg. it was beautiful. that's not my problem in the time that it took us to go back and forth about this gank that never happen. bot has died twice before i've reached lvl 3. so not only did the enemy team get more kills. i got no gold out of the time i invested in my top lane cuz i know that ivern synergizes with his frontline. especially early game. so he's messed up my gold income cuz i missed out on an assist i couldve gotten. and proceeds to insult me for letting bot lane die. when i was top... trying to help him. all the while, the enemy jg is right on schedule getting gold an farming which he was going to best me in anyway cuz im ivern. ivern gets one smite and then another after a min. after that it takes a lil bit for him to get money so in the meantime he should be ganking. but

so here i am omw bot. my adc and supp are INITIATING...ON THE BOT LANE THAT JUST KILLED THEM. but here i am arguing with aatrox like an idiot cuz no one ever listens to each other when they argue on this game. everyone wants to be heard tho. unless ur just trying to insult them, like this aatrox, who continues to insult me after he's set me back and cost me my early lead im accustomed to getting as ivern. im already fucking tilted becuz my time was wasted then im getting insulted by some dude who doesnt understand how much he's hurt his team. so i just say fuck it... it's wrong. i shouldnt do it... but i just stopped trying. i wasnt going to sit there and care so much when he literally refused to work with me. i couldnt work with bot at that point they were too behind and showed little concern in their actions either. it's wrong of me i know. i should know better.

but i cant shake the feeling that the dude shouldve just let me help instead being bronze and refusing to let me assist in a teamgame. it's just the small shit like that. i can pretty much handle my bot lane feeding if i can get top fed and mid can roam.

i wish i didnt have to mute ppl at the beginning of the match but imma have to start doing that. cuz getting tilted will more than likely lose me the game.