So many people take advice or even factfull statements as trash talking. "We will probably lose if we keep stagering our deaths" was taken as "stop feeding shit heads" and somehow "LB push the lane before you roam" was also taken horribly. These are just some small examples but I see it too often.
Yep. Had a game today, our Orianna was always in side lanes pushing solo and got caught pretty often.
After the game I literally just said "Orianna, please stay with the team, you are a great team fighter, not a split pusher". What was the answer I got? "Suck my balls, you filthy animal."
It can get demeaning veeery quickly. Also due to text being a rather hard medium to express emotions over. Also a person who is already upset because they are playing poorly has a cognitive leaning towards taking things "the wrong way"
Depends how you word the advice because people have become overly sensitive pansies.
It's mostly because people don't want to admit what they're doing/buying is wrong or sub-optimal to the situation and also since it's through text sometimes it can sound quite condescending which further strays people from wanting to hear what you have to say.
Also, some people already have a set goal of what they want to do when they pick something so no amount of asking will change it (i.e full AP maokai or something like that)
That's where you're wrong. "Advice" is the easiest avenue for trash talking.
