When did proper farming and lane control in Bot Lane fall backseat to kills?
I'm just Gold so maybe I'm a dookie elo case, but
When did it become sub-optimal to properly farm/last hit minions and to keep from shoving the lane so your Jungler can assist with getting the pair of Duo Lane players ahead? As a Support, I NEVER touch minions (unless I'm building along the Relic line, of course) and am sure that I don't farm unless I'm in a situation where the ADC had to go back to altar and I'm safe to last hit in the lane. As ADC, I only shove the lane in when doing so benefits the team as a whole (such as when the enemy Duo Laners are both gone and I'm denying them waves). As Support, I usually end the game with little to no CS whatsoever and am far from least gold income. On the other hand, those I Support for are constantly hitting minions and pushing the lane to the enemy tower and wondering why we're losing to every gank; when I'm ADC my Support is doing everything in their power to get the minion waves shoved and force engages with the enemy Duo Laners. My Supports usually end the game with +50 CS and close to if not the least gold income (unless they're someone like Brand and are only in it for the kills).
Is it better to shove lanes now? Or is that just dookie elo strats from players who don't understand how they should be playing the lane?