That's literally the role of a jungler. They are suppose to have an impact on your lane, and often handling shot calling since the majority of the map is (guess what?) the jungle. They can help you snowball your lane with a successful gank, or putting it behind by either not ganking, or failling a gank.
If you're unable to handle lane pressure or reading the enemy jungle path to avoid ganks, that is on you. If you do something for the jungler to think you're not gank worthy, i.e. subpar performance, then it's on you.
With that said, you should also consider that your jungler could be doing something else while the enemy jungler bothering you (meaning your jungler putting their trust on you to play smart and buy time for your jungler to do whatever they need to do). Whether it could be counter-jungling, or putting pressure on another lane, or getting a jungle/lane objective.
Of course, I'm taking it for granted that these junglers you're talking about knows what they are doing.