Fighting a losing battle: any advice on climbing out of YOLO Elo?
Before I was doomed to Bronze mediocrity (I was in Silver, once upon a time...), even Silver seemed to be a little more wary of what champions actually did that weren't the regularly spammed ones (and even then, a lot of times they don't even know the specifics of THOSE ones, they just call them "OP as shit" and refuse to take obvious countermeasures). I know, that's not saying a heck of a lot but come on, I shouldn't have to learn how to spam champions that are frustratingly boring and (to me, in strange ways I have yet to comprehend) needlessly combo-centric to win.
Bronze is almost all about 'who can show they have the biggest e-peen' while also riding on a hope and a prayer that the other team has more toxic and/or incompetent people than yours.
I adapt my playstyle to reflect different situations. I use a variety of runes and masteries on the same champion for different roles or depending on the enemy team comp that I have to take into consideration item build for later on during the match. Or if we're particularly behind, I don't make it an arms race to see who can burst down who first because they already have too much of a lead in that, surviving + objectives is way better. So on and so forth.
So what am I to do? I try to queue with others but there's no one dedicated to doing more than one or two matches more in succession, more or less, and even then a lot of nights they aren't even on the same time as me when I DO find someone that I can get on the same page on.
I'm sick of being unable to keep a consistent win/loss ratio and I just want to play with people who know how to think pro-actively instead of just reactionary, by which most of the time is a loss anyway, barring some crazy-good luck with a teamfight that never should have happened in the first place.
How can I climb if the only person who IS changing and altering their playstyle to better learn the more delicate intracacies is ME? It's a team game but I'm rated and judged as an INDIVIDUAL and I lose more LP than I gain because I'm the only one not dying before the second wave of minions hit or stupid things like that. I have honestly lost track of the amount of times I've seen the same names come up on both my team and the enemy and it's very disheartening because it further cements my belief I'm not going to play with new people who want to make any more than the bare minimum effort. I don't expect to be carried. I don't —want— to be carried. I just want some sort of assurance that I'm not going to, if I'm lucky, by the end of S6, be in Bronze 2 or something, defeating the purpose of doing ranked at all.
I don't claim to be good. I just know I'm (objectively) better than a LOT of the people I just so happen to, by sheer coincidence, be matched with. I can take my lickings and admit to being outplayed and I deserve various losses, but when you see your teammates dying twice before 3 minutes into the match or other, equally infuriating ways, that snowballs because they can't be reasoned with and get defensive and mute at even the most positive and polite constructive criticism, and then feed even HARDER....holy shizniks, people, how do you pull this kind of game out of the fire? It's a daily occurence and I'm debating just doing normals because I see WAY more skilled players there than I EVER have in ranked!