Let's talk: Fair - Boards vs Reality
So, I was bored and went through the Duel Links forum on Steam, and saw something dumb, even more so considering it was a recurring theme the past few days, and as bored as I was, I had a brilliant ide, let's see how many people will get offended on the LoL Boards if I try to talk about this.
And I know, I know, you guys are as sad as me that you can't downvote the thread, but oh well, let's see what happens.
So, what I read were a good bunch of threads with the same thing "nerf X deck, it's unfair", when asked why is it unfair, the reply was simple "I don't have fun against it".
We already know that fun is relative, and if fun dictates fairness, it basically shows that fairness is also relative.
But, there are two types of "fair", there's objective fairness and subjective fairness.
- Objective fairness is obvious, it is by the rules. If the rules allow it, it's fair.
- Subjective fairness is based on feels, it has nothing to do with the rules. It can be objectively fair, but subjectively unfair.
I always used this example as best description: "In this random city, there's a city race, rules are simple, anyone can join. Around 500 people join, your every day joe, but Usain Bolt is in the area, he decides to join as well. As expected, he wins no contest".
Was that race fair? Yes, it was fair, anyone can join, so Usain is allowed to join as well. Did the race feel fair? Depends on who you ask. Ask the ones in charge, it was fair, as Usain, it was fair, ask a random dude from the ones who participated, it wasn't fair. Why? Because he has no chance to win against Usain, it's Usain friggin Bolt, your random average joe can't win against him.
And this brings us to the biggest part of this thread: "Losing isn't fun"
Just like in Yu-Gi-Oh, people who want to win will play the most "unfair" things, because what's fair doesn't win. The more chances you give to your opponent, the less chances to win you have, so when you want to win, you have to play things that give your opponent the least chances to win, because the less chances your opponent has, the more chances you have. It's just that simple, it's logical.
But here comes entitlement, it's ok when you do it, but it's not ok when it's done to you. People now cry that "it's only stomp or get stomped", but who are the people who cry that? It's the people who play "fair" champions, they are "fair", they don't have impact, so it's either the opponents are bad and can't keep up, or they are good enough to keep up and stomp you. People cry they have no agency, but they play stuff that gives away that agency. You play a slow jungler in the meta, you give away your agency, you're not allowed to cry because it's your choice.
And we have one more thing, agency is also correlated to skill. We see people like JaySea who even easily won with Tryndamere support in low elo. When you out skill your opponents, even if you champion is "fair", your opponent can't abuse your weaknesses and you win it.
Which brings us to the last issue: if you want to win, if you want chances, if you want fun, EARN IT. Let go of your ego of thinking "I'm better than everyone" and accept where you are, if you want to play your own champions with which you have fun, champions that are "fair", you need to heavily boost your own skill in terms of micro, macro, risk success, etc, you need to outskill everyone in your games and take control yourself, because if everyone is close to equal in skill, your champion can't keep up. But if you don't want to do it, play what's strong, play what's "unfair".
In Duel Links I play Fortune Ladies, a "fair" deck, yet I don't have problems against stuff like Dark Magicians, Element Sabers w/ Injokers or most of the meta decks, why? Because I know my deck inside out, I know how the opponents deck functions and what their weakness is, and I outskill those players. Again, it's back to skill, I can choose to play Grass Shiranui or Dark Magician, the "unfair" decks, but I have no reason to, I'm good enough to win consistently with a "fair" deck, even reaching a 22 win streak in the last KC Cup.
Same goes in LoL, especially in lower elos, which are exactly the players who cry. You have 3 options:
- Get good
- Play what's meta
- Quit
But, the low elo mentality doesn't allow option 1 for the vast majority of players, because they already think they are good enough, but if they, why aren't they winning? I know the feel to blame the team, to blame anyone but you, I was there. When playing Dota, there was this moment 4 years ago, I calibrated at 700 MMR, which would be modern day equivalent of Bronze 3, I dropped to 100 MMR (Iron 4) and kept blaming my team, was on the forum blaming how I can't win because of my team mates, etc. Met some chill people once, and they had me play with them, that was in 4.5k MMR, which the 4.5k MMR at the time would be the current quivalent of D1/Masters (at the time, the highest MMR was 6k), and I was happy, that's where I thought I belong, I spent months in 1-200 MMR blaming my team and now I had the chance to prove myself, and I got owned, and saying I was going 0-20 in every game would be an understatement. And I had nothing to do, all the people I played with were 4-5k MMR, I couldn't blame them for being bad as I did with my team mates, only thing I had to do was accept I suck. So I did, I read guides, practiced my stuff, combos, mechanics, watched actual 5-6K players play the characters I played and got good. After a couple months, I went from 100 MMR to 3000 MMR in 1 month, while playing like 3-4 games a day during the week and 6-7 in the weekends. So I know that so many of the people who cry "my team is bad" are blowing too much hot air. Yes, some teams can lose you the game, I've had it, we all had it, but that evens out when you look at the bad things your opponents do, but that's the thing, stop looking at your team mates, look for mistakes at your opponents.
If it feels unfun, look in what elo you, if you're too low to matter, which 90% of the players are, then simply get good. The "I stomped my lane but still lost because team fed" mentality is toxic, you got a lead, transition it, make it help your team as well.
And that's all for today from your lovely me, if you want to know more, state your intentions in the comments bellow.