"You deserve to lose": A reoccuring experience in Ranked
I've been playing LoL on and off since about 2010-2011. I've got countless wins under my belt, and even more losses. At the end of the day, it's a fun game that I'm moderately competent at, and despite swearing off of it many times due to the toxic player's I've had the misfortune of being paired up with, I've had an all around good time.
Having come back from my most recent break, me and my friend decided we'd test ourselves by playing ranked, and honestly, I've had a lot more fun with it than normal queue. This was solidified once we got placed (me Silver IV, him Gold IV - he's always been better than me and had about two more wins up on me in placement matches) and started having some really good matches with some honestly enjoyable people, making my Season 2/Season 3 experiences in Bronze IV seem like nothing but a bad memory.
But you're probably wondering - if my most recent ranked experience is so good, what's the problem?
Well, while I certainly will acknowledge that I'm not getting called nearly as many obscenities as I was back in my Bronze days, I've started noticing that Silver has it's own strange quirk - people intentionally throwing games after a rough start because they believe their team "Deserves to lose".
Now I've played long enough to know that there are very few unwinnable situations on the fields of justice, and have been part of some pretty epic comebacks. Ranked games are no exception, and in fact some of my most enjoyable matches have started from us being rocked early game only to make a clutch team fight or Baron steal for the turn around and win. The "deserves to lose" mentality essentially spits in the face of this, resulting in someone intentionally tanking their own elo because they want to teach their teammates some kind of lesson for making mistakes in early game (tunnel vision resulting in a failed gank, losing a lane early due to repeated tactical errors, etc). These lessons can be the teammate intentionally feeding, afking in well, ignoring the rest of the team to farm jungle creeps - basically any way they can force a loss in order to give their teammates a good old fashioned "I told you so" in the results chat.
While I've had a few comebacks even despite this kind of negative play, It's been starting to become a little more prevalent as the pre-season has continued - more people freshly joining my league, I imagine. As such, it's starting to make solo-queue a bit of a crapshoot - if I'm on a team that doesn't disintegrate, victory is almost assured. If I'm on one that starts bickering with itself within the first 5-10 minutes, it's almost certainly a loss for "not deserving the win".
I'm currently down to Silver V after a 4 game losing streak, which is why I thought I'd bring it up for discussion. I don't want to sound like every single last loss I've received isn't my fault - I've certainly been "that one baddie" in my fair share of games, ranked and otherwise. But once again it does feel as if player attitude is playing a massive role on how games go, and that (at least pre-Gold, from what my friend tells me) climbing the ladder is as much about being lucky as it is being good.
Anyway, enough rambling - I wanna hear your thoughts and insights on this! Is this just a freak coincidence, or is it a significant problem at these lower elo tiers? Do you think there's a way I can work to counteract this kind of toxicity on the fly, or should I just accept it as an inevitability? Give me your thoughts, even if it's just "lol, l2p n00b" - I'm a big boy, I can take it ;)