Honor 0-2 climb

Can we address that most of the times when someone gets reported its usually by a toxic person. In a 3v3 match, I usually play 5v5, I had a Udyr that was jungling. However he purposefully stayed in lane and was pushing my creeps. I see this as a form of sabotage. I kept politely reminding him to stop and he said someone has to push and get turrets, in which case he finally got the first and only turret of the game and it costs him 5 deaths. When I tried to get farm it wasn't there, then I told him to learn his role and he responded in game as "reported" signaling that once we lose he was gonna report me for his own incompetence. I tried to surrender and he didn't vote yes, even my other teammate told him to chill and he said reported to him. SO I lost my cool and I believe I called him one or two curse names. Nothing too foul, I regret that but then I stayed quiet, it wasn't a consistent rampage like I've witnessed others do. Then after we lost I was downgraded from honor 3 with two checkpoints to honor 0. I was in distraught that I didn't get a warning, and that I couldn't get rewards. Then for 10 games I couldn't talk to my teammates. I get that they would disable chat with other team but by limiting 2 messages for every 4-5 minutes gave me a disadvantage. Riot needs to know that a good sum of players are silver and below, i'm currently a silver 3 player, but by playing with this elo players there are a lot of amateurs that literally play ranked with a new champ for the first time. I'm not gonna rant about that but sometimes they need to be guiided. SO out of the next 10 games I lost the majority due to not being able to communicate I think that system is broken, that's like someone going to jail for being rude to a customer that their job and their firing them and making them mute for 10 days while they are looking for a job. How about giving me 2-3 strikes, actually alerting me if I am foul or whatever again I will be hhnor 0, and even after being honor 0, even if you wanna keep the chat restrictions, which I feel is wrong, you make the climb to honor 2 not as hard as the climb to honor 3. Me having to spend weeks just to go to the default is punishing people too much. This year has been the worst year of my experience. With the making of Pyke and nerfing healing supports and adcs. Riot has taken steps to address that but this honor demotion will probably make me quit. Any thoughts, am I overreacting