I mean, that's just not a jungler vs jungler winning matchup. Invading is not an option unless an unreasonably good oppurtunity presents itself (catching him in his pathing AFTER hes used ult). Most Tryndameres are super greedy and after a successful/unsucessful of theres and they're low, I often find they go back into jungle and try to greed- camps. Control wards are super important here so that you don't lose your jungle. If you see him pathing in, see if you can get a collapse- if not, look for a good gank oppurtunity.
If you're Nocturne, you rarely need Ult to gank mid or top, while it helps, it can usually be done by wrapping behind them, or going in when they agro. Watch to see your enemies tendencies and exploit of they try to trade your laners. Save ult for bot lane as much as humanly possible, personally I feel like this is your biggest bang for your buck as Nocturne.
Good luck