Queing with teams

Hi, I play league all the time, and I love this game. I'm Bronze 5, in and out of Bronze 4 and i just have a few frustrations. I'm not gonna sit here and complain about how all my teammates suck and I have to carry every single game, cause that's just not true, I believe I'm a good player but by no means do i carry every single game. But something happened today that was extremely frustrating. I was Bronze 4 13 LP. I played a game and my team really was bad, they chased kills all game while the enemy team split pushed turrets down all day long. I was nice, I kept telling them we need to focus objectives and take turrets before were too far behind and we lose. They didn't listen and we lost. Next game I find out the four of them are qued together because i get the Same exact team. Now I've heard rumors that league pairs teams up with tougher competition when qued as a team, so what this is telling me is that i get put into teams like this? that just chase kills and don't focus objectives? AND I'm facing tougher competition? It just seems very unfair especially since i got qued with the same team twice in a row and it cost me a rank.

Now i'm not against queing as a group.

Me and my wife play all the time, and that's another issue that is very frustrating, I do very well by myself in bronze 5 and 4, but when qued with her it seems were playing much tougher competition. I just wish that it wasn't so punishing to play with a buddy. Look if you and your friend/wife/buddy/brother/whoever are good enough to get out of bronze without a handicap whats the problem with getting out of bronze together? Why do you have to make it tougher on us that just want to climb out of bronze?

Thanks for listening,

A very frustrated gamer.