PSA Stop Pushing Into Enemy Top Jungle While Im Being Pushed In Top Lane

If I'm stuck at tower last hitting or being pushed into tower it is very difficult for me to react as quickly as my opponent. My opponent probably saw you walk over a ward and is coming to collapse on your ass right now. Like, I can follow, but, I will be missing a lot of experience and gold because of your bad play and you're most likely going to die anyway because my opponent can get there before I can, even if we leave at a similar time due to the positioning of waves.