What can i do about bad teammates and how to avoid them?

I'm a silver 4 player and i recently got out of bronze, i usually play top lane champs like or and depending on the matchup i might play or . This is how games usually go, i farm steadily and increasing my cs and punish my laner when they make a mistake. I check the map to see if my team needs me or if the jungler is somewhere like bot or mid and then i go for the all in. 80% of the time this works and i win my lane, with like a 3 kill lead and about 20-40 cs more than the other top laner. Then i hear an allied has been slain and i look up to see what the scoreboard is like.

My Bot 0/7/0 2/8/1 My Mid 2/3/1 My Jungler 3/6/0 Me the top 4/1/0 and got the first tower my team got

Their bot 9/1/4 3/2/6 Their mid 2/2/2 Their jungler 4/1/1 Their top 1/4/0

Before i upload this post i just want to say that i'm not here to flame anyone or make anyone angry, i just want to know some red flags that indicate that i should dodge a match instead of picking my champ and pray. I have been in my promos to silver 3 about 3 times now and i always come close to promoting up then go on a massive losing streak because my bot doesn't know how to last hit a minion and then flames our jungler because he didn't gank them when they were up on the enemies tower.