Wave Control and Lane Priority.

Yes I'm low elo and no I dont get enough time to play so i dont play enough ranked to climb.

That being said how do I explain to my team (that refuses to communicate) that I have no priority in lane if my jun gets fisrt blooded and i dont have control of the wave. Obviously id want to freeze. But if the wave is pushing away from me and the enemy team has a smart mid laner he will freeze (which sometime happens). This ultimately mean i cant farm, fall behind in cs and cant respond as fast as the other mid player.

Like these all add up to putting someone behind yet plp just flame........ any advice would be nice.