Feels like teammates bait bad habits/ideas out of me at times

I get inner conflict as I feel that I or my teammates should be doing something else at certain moments, going against my gut, and it usually ends up bad .. maybe in laning phase I want to farm more passively, my supp plays on a diff page then me (taking 2much poke/being agressive), so I end up trying to follow up at times, to not feel bad if I am infact wasting potential good things coming out of it, or to try to make up for my supp taking dmg, but it ends up not worth...thats just one specific example out of many kinds and times.