Ahh, sorry. My bad for assuming you were referring to Yasuo mid, I tend to see him there most of the time.
What top laners would do well vs him?
Darius can abuse him very well when he engages onto him. You're somewhat reliant on being able to land your pull when he dashes away, but you can still have a fairly easy lane with Darius.
I think Renekton does well against him. He's a good lane bully AND is able to shove without mana. If Yasuo dashes to you, you can go for a stun.
Lissandra and Lulu are two great champions that work well against assassins. They also have good waveclear (though they need mana first). They're both good in the fact that they can interrupt his combos (polymorph/knock up and slows/roots). It's a somewhat sketchy lane in the first few minutes of the game, but after a seekers and mana, the lane is somewhat chill.
I'd avoid looking purely at being a lane bully though. Yasuo does do well against those that also have a weak early game. Someone like Vlad gets destroyed in that lane. Look at who can damage him and prevent getting dove.
he just constantly shoves the lane so he has the level and minion wave advantage, and if the wave ever gets in a position that's bad for him, he roams (whether to mid lane, or invading my jungle, or TPing bot lane and it happens outside of my ward's vision so I can't TP at the same time as him, and even if I did, remember, the lane is shoved int omy tower not his).
Yasuo's kit does naturally shove waves if he uses all of it. I wouldn't worry too much about loosing level advantage. As long as you're still in XP then you'll both be matched in XP up until he shoves your wave (it'll balance out after his wave is dead).
Now, I'm going to assume you don't have a good source of wave clear. You're going to be granted with a few options on how to deal with Yasuo leaving lane.
- Follow him and ping where he's going. You and your jungler/mid laner should be able 2v1 him if he's not fed yet. You can go back to your lane and shove the next wave. Yes, you lost a few minion waves, but you may have just been successful and killed him (300-ish gold). The wave is now also pushing in your favor. Your minions will be pushing towards his turret now. If you shove the lane, you can deny him at least a single minion wave and try balance out the lost XP but come out ahead in gold.
- Just shove. If he TP'ed somewhere you can't follow him, then just shove. You can't do anything at this point and need to make him regret his TP by getting his turret (if possible) or deny him as many minions as possible.
- Shove the wave and take the chance to back and buy items. You can try to get a minor item advantage this way to help survive the lane.
These aren't only specific to when playing against Yasuo but more of Top Lane manners in responding to your laner's movements.
On most of the champs that outscale him,they're weak early on so he's even able to harass me when the wave is closer to my turret
One thing I see a lot of people struggle with is the concept scaling. If you're a late game champion, just farm. You don't need kills, you need levels and items. Turn the lane into a farm lane, build sustain, and then back before you're in the threat of his all-in. Rinse and repeat until you're valuable to your team. A champion with a better early game is naturally going to have an easier time than his opponent.
Additionally, you don't have to 'beat' him. You can come out of lane behind and try to be more useful late game.
I feel like he has all the control about when to engage on me (dash in dash out) or disengage on me (dash away, tornado me away), and also has all the control over the minion wave (manaless waveclear on low cooldowns), AND he scales better than me so I feel like the onus is on me to beat him in lane, and not just go even. Does this make sense?
You don't have to beat him, you have to go even with him. If you aren't useless to the point the game seems like a 4v5, then you've done a good job.
I would only actually try to turn the lane into a kill based lane if you're a champion that needs kills, at which point the lane is mostly a skill based lane.
I don't really have a comment on him having control of the lane. I don't consider him a control based champion so I can't relate.