This is just rediculous

I realize that they are trying to make the most enjoyable experience for other users but is this even necessary. I think that another penalty should replace it like deducting the player a level or something along the lines. My mother decides that she randomly wants to unplug the router so I disconnect and then get back on when the game is over and I get greeted to this bs. I mean seriously.....I have only been playing for a week. Im wondering if I should just find a new game like this...