toxic player on matchmaking errors, mmr volatility, and smurfing. I need help

I have several games where I play so well in the jungle that the enemy team starts raging at me or each other in all chat. I get thanked for carrying a lot and I get friendly and honorable opponent and teamwork honors a lot. I adapt my lane activity/pressure or jungle pathing every game. I My builds are adaptable and I rarely return to base with less than 1300 g in lane or jungle.. Usually my teams fight so hard when I am jungle I find myself returning to base with 1700-3k gold on first back and these are the games I win. I can jungle literally almost anything. And my lane game is on par if not even better with certain champs.

If you don't want to read my rant about smurfing or my general troubles I am still willing to listen to any random questions or suggestions you have. na.op.gg me (gremgar) I want to climb. I want to be competetive. I realize because of the infestation of smurfs in the silver teirs that I have to stomp hard (due to many silver people being boosted or carried out of their elo) but the changes in this game make that very hard. Maybe someone can help me with that.

I want to stop watching smurfs stomp my teammates. It is not fair in the least.

I regularly get people on the enemy team with smurf in their summoner name or club name that cheese lvl 1 with their buddies and do all of the standard high elo BS. Sometimes I grind these kids into the dust but I have to be the jungler to do so and sometimes im mid with the lucky picks. Sometimes they are too fed and coordinated. Anywho as a whole I play around the jungler. Ping the map. Tell people where to push. Communicate my strategy (only for people to tell me I talk too much and some other deplorable selfish greedy garbage like that) I am a leader.

the day before I started falling (last week) I was at about 90% winrate over 11 games with one loss. I was a massive influence in all of those games. This is normal for me to go on long winstreaks where I am the primary or secondary carry player whether it be with a tank or a fighter/assassin. occasionally i get autofilled and carry as support/mid but many bot lane players do not understand how to trade or cs in bot lane so its still a crapshoot and i have to beg jg/mid to come save the lane and explain in detail/ping summoner spells not used as to why the trades went sour and why bot enemy is snowballing. I have many champions with %65-%70 winrate but I do not believe in spamming those champs to climb. It is also very common for 10+ games that my teammates randomly all become utter garbage except for a couple here and there and I have to carry 2v8 A LOT. This is not healthy gameplay for my brain.

I have several games where I play so well in the jungle that the enemy team starts raging at me in all chat. I even had a game the day I started falling again where my team was taunting the enemy in all chat, only for the entire enemy team to snap back at my team with "you just have a REALLY good jungler". I had to respond to my team with "I am toxic and on chat restrictions" (im not anymore) they told this to the enemy team, and everyone but me got a huge kick out of it. Thats messed up isn't it? That actually just confirms my suspicions. That conversation tilted me even more. Think about what has been done to players like me please. I am becoming more toxic on the inside the longer this goes on and its going to explode.