There are times when i will not gank for you as a jungler.

For instance, you died twice before i finished my first clear. I will not gank for you. You have demonstrated that you are an insufficient player and cannot fight the enemy. A 2v1 would have a slim chance of going well after the gold and XP advantage you so kindly handed to them. I will not gank your lane at that point, unless there is almost no way the gank could go wrong. This does not make me a shit jungler because i choose to gank bot instead of top after your 3rd death, it's not my job to babysit you.